Doggy Depression??


My poor Chloe, she can be quite the stressed out pup at times. In this pictures you can somewhat see the thinning hair on her front paws; she gets this from licking them anytime she is stressed, bored, or nervous. Vets have said she may have a skin problem, food allergy, or anxiety. I know goldens have sensitive skin, but the vitamin supplements and diet change to a low allergy, healthy coat Avoderm dog food has not helped, so I am leaning towards anxiety or depression.



Blog Focus: Money Smart Moms Blog


With our recent bout of illness, I am always on the lookout for new ways to bite the bug so to say. I was reading my friend Deb‘s blog this morning, she had a pretty rough year last year, with a plethora of illness to include Shingles, Mono, and walking pneumonia to name just a few. Austin had shingles when he was 9 and I don’t wish that on my worst enemy, but to have it twice?? Yikes! My understanding of shingles is that is is caused by the varicella virus (chicken pox) and it can re-occur any time you are immuno-compromised, or stressed. Shingles is the nerve ending being attacked, and from what I understand is about the most painful skin condition one can encounter.

Anyways, this year she is being proactive and using various treatments to stave off illness this year, to include a flu vaccine, and Zicam, some nasal swabs that are supposed to lessen the time you are sick. This is a really great idea, especially if you have kids or are a single parent where you cannot afford to take time off.

You really should check out Deb’s Money Smart Moms Blog, it is packed full of smart, witty, and informative information that is useful for any mom! I also loved the post on her other blog about her son’s ‘cave’. Wow, do we have the same kids??



Unsolicited Advice


I never understood why being pregnant makes you a target for unsolicited advice… one of my favorite stories happened about 10 years ago when I was pregnant with Christopher.  

I was 18, and about 7 months pregnant with him and on the city bus to a doctor’s appointment and a little old elderly lady said “Awww, how precious, you are ripe with the Lord’s blessing, how long have you been married to your husband?”

To which I replied “about three weeks”.

Her eyes narrowed and she suddenly looked angry and said “My, my, don’t YOU work fast!”

Without losing my cool I said “oh, I got pregnant on my wedding night, but by the speed this baby is developing I would not be surprised if I went into labor right this second!”

She just glared at me and got up and pulled the sting to tell the driver she was getting off at the next stop, the whole time muttering obscenities about disrespectful youth and loose women.  According to another passenger, she got off about 6 stops early and was notorious for being crotchety with young ladies.  I guess I was one of the first to get under her skin like that!



Belt Test!


Friday, Austin and Christopher are testing again in Taekwondo, this time for their yellow belts. This will be their second belt test. Afterwards we have dinner with our friends M & J, it will be a lot of fun. I am sure we will be out super late and leave with achy sides from laughing so much and tired kids from playing so hard.

Anyways, just wanted to mention the test real quick before I head to bed.



Emails, Spam, and Dating Services, oh my!


I get the strangest emails all the time from people pretending to know me and telling me that they want me to click on their profile and chat with them. Other spam I get a lot is for foreclosed homes, online schools, free gifts, and dating services. Which led me to wonder, how does one go about dating on the Internet? I have met guys online (before I was married of course), but I never have been involved in an online dating service. I have known people who used them (with and without luck) and it just seems so difficult to find a good dating website.

Sites that offer Dating Site Reviews are a great place to start. You get to see what others are saying about specific sites before you put your information up at a shoddy dating website. I am all for doing my research before taking any big plunge, so this is right up my alley… if I needed a dating service that is!



Christopher


Tonight Christopher woke up around midnight. Bobby and I were playing spades on Pogo using walkie talkies to communicate since his laptop is being a huge pain in the ass about getting online lately. Anyways I hear Chris call down that his stomach hurts. I ask him if he is going to throw up and he replies yes, so I tell him to go to the bathroom and puke. Well maybe 30 seconds later he says he can’t and he needs a pain reliever… which sometimes he asks for because he likes the taste so I tell him to wait a little bit. Meanwhile Bobby hears the exchange and comes up from the basement to see if he can assist.

He goes upstairs and asks Chris if he is going to puke and he says he doesn’t think so anymore, so Bobby gets the puke bucket and tells Chris “take this bucket and go back to bed”. Chris, who is super groggy leaves the bucket next to the toilet and goes back to bed where he promptly barfs all over the place. Bobby tells him to run to the bathroom and puke in the toilet. Chris runs to the bathroom and walks past the toilet and barfs in the bucket. Lovely.

Bobby, who is getting over the flu excuses himself from barf detail… but in his defense he did remove all the bedding and wash it, as well as helping me make the bed. I got to wash the bucket, bedroom, and bathroom. Of course now I am feeling sick and cannot sleep, but I am about to go back upstairs, I think I heard him in the bathroom a few minutes ago.

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Bobby decided come hell or high water he IS going to work tomorrow. We were joking how easy it is to be sick at this job. When he was in the Army he had to get up at 4am, go to sick call, wait hours and hours to be screened before they gave you the OK to be home, or they sent you back to work. There were many times Bobby went to work with the flu because it just was not worth it going to sick call.

This job… well. Monday he went into work for two hours, the people he shared a building with said they did not want his germs so he headed home, calling his supervisor in Texas saying “hey, not feeling hot, I am going home” to where the supervisor said “go home, rest, put 8 hours on your time card and if you are sick tomorrow call me sometime tomorrow to let me know”. So he called him this morning, took a day of paid time off and slept off his flu.



Contact Lenses


Austin has been talking a lot about wanting contact lenses, I was totally against it at first, but I think in the next year or two he may be ready. He’s going into Middle School next year, and I can see how he would rather not be in glasses. I was looking at this website that has information on many popular brands like Biomedics Premier, Acuvue, Bausch & Lomb, etc., and I really like the information I am seeing. I am leaning towards Softlens 59, they seem to have everything I am looking for for a pre-teen, comfort, high performance, durability, ease of clean, and a reputation for being one of the highest rated lenses from one of the most trusted companies. A website called www.lenssurvey.com had some really good info.



My personal life…


….seems to be getting in the way of my online time! Some quick updates….

  • Bobby is still sick with the flu or whatever it is, this is day 3 for him, very unusual for Bobby has the 24 hour stomach flu for 2 hours. No one else is sick… yet. I signed him up for club Pogo so we could play gin rummy together online.
  • Nothing new with me, trying to go about my daily life with everyone underfoot has been taxing. I find there is not enough time in the day for anything.
  • Austin had his artwork featured at the local public library, when all are well we will be heading down there to take pictures.
  • Christopher is on my last nerve… I hate having to tell him a million times each day to turn around and eat or do his homework or whatnot. He has gone to bed early two nights in a row for watching TV instead of eating.
  • Matthew is Daddy’s boy this week and wants nothing to do with me, unless he wants to nurse. His new word is “uh-uhhh” and he says it in a talk to the hand snotty tone while shaking his head no.

So that is what is new with us!



RockStartup Video 3!


I few days ago I mentioned the reality tv> website Rockstartup.com, episode three is up! It was so neat to see them moving into their brand spankin’ new office. I got to see their old office in their confessional videos and it was pretty snug… the new offices, WOW, they are beautiful, I just love the color scheme, especially the deep blue wall. The video also confirms that Ted Murphy is a big kid, he loves his toys!

Anyways, you should really check out the website, it is really neat seeing what is behind a startup internet 2.0 company.

Hey Ted, you should come help me design a few rooms in my house, I would love some rooms that are colorful, funky, and fun!

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