Rice and beans, beans and rice.


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I have been on a quest to live a better life, part of that was to bring Dave Ramsey’s teachings into the family and the other part is to learn to be happy with what I have instead of wanting bigger and better. Living frugally is living smart, not living poor. Why live on steak and lobster and have debt when you can live on rice and beans and pay a few hundred more dollars on the credit card balance.

Today I had a light bulb moment when I realized that with small changes, I would appreciate my house a little bit more. When I was at the library I found two books that caught my eyes, one was by “The Queen of Clean”, Linda Cobb, called The Queen of Clean Conquers Clutter and the other was Mary Ellen’s Guide to Good Enough Housekeeping. I recognized that part of my problem was lack of organization making my house feel smaller than it is and seem difficult to clean because it is cluttered.

When Bobby came home today, he came upstairs and found me in the bathroom with 100% of its contents in baskets in the bedroom and I was washing the light bulbs, he looked at my boys and said “uh-oh, mama has gone off the deep end again!” and he rescued Sophie and went to another room to play with her so I could finish my task.

I think I got rid of 3 bags full of junk, from magazines to expired products to the makeup I rarely wear, but Matthew frequently uses to “paint” my bathroom door with. I also got all the products off my counters (like mouthwash and detangler) and they now have new homes in my clean medicine cabinet or under the sink. I also hung a couple tiles that I have had for years that I planned on hanging after I painted, but we never got around to painting. My bathroom feels SO BIG now, I love it!

I am so impressed with how well Bobby is doing on our new “cash diet”, he decided he wanted a Coke, but we have been soda free for a few weeks now, so he got into his change jar and pulled out some silver to run to 7-11 to get a coke, I asked him if I chipped in some quarters if he would get me one too. He calls me from Safeway and says “wow, it is so expensive there, I decided to go to Safeway to get a better deal”. This is something I have been nagging at him forever, but Dave is right, it is a LOT harder to spend a dollar than it is just to swipe your debit card. I cannot believe how on board he has been with all this.

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Finally, a rice & bean recipe for you all.

Dad’s Red Beans & Rice (this is a recipe I grew up, my dad made this a lot)

1 cup of long/medium grain rice
2 cans of red beans (undrained)
1 medium onion, diced
1/2 green bell pepper, diced
1 kielbasa (cut into 1/4 inch disks)
1 T minced garlic

Prepare rice according to package, either in a rice cooker (my way) or on the stove top (my dad’s way). Saute together onion, bell pepper, kielbasa, and garlic over medium heat. Combine cooked rice, undrained red beans, and kielbasa & veggie mix in a 2 quart casserole dish and bake until heated through on 350 (about 30 minutes).

I like to serve this with cornbread since all of the ingredients for those are staples.

*Money saving tip… get your green peppers when they are on sale and freeze them, that way you always have green pepper on hand. I wait for them to go on sale at King Sooper (our local Kroger chain) and I buy red, yellow, orange and green peppers and then slice them lengthwise and freeze on wax paper on a cookie sheet for an hour, then I put them into sandwich baggies and put in the freezer (1 pepper per baggie). Then I dice about 2 or three green peppers and do the same, again one pepper per baggie. The pre-freezing keeps them from sticking together, so you can use half a baggie in this recipe without having to thaw.



Pregnancy nesting, brought to you by Home Depot


Last night I was talking to a friend in IMs about my lack of energy to clean my house, and took some pictures of my horrible messy house to share with her, since she was saying she has not been cleaning due to a newborn, toddler, and preschooler… sheesh, what excuse is THAT! (Joking of course, she has more reason than I do).

So last night I got inspired to put a shelf in Matthew’s closet, but the shelf I had was about 6 inches too tall, so I found the perfect one at Home Depot’s website and decided tomorrow we would go get it… thinking I could get his closet looking better and then sit my ass on the couch and relax the rest of the day feeling accomplished enough with cleaning an ENTIRE closet.

Matthew Closet Before
So here is the before, you may not be able to tell but I *did* have a four compartment cart in there that I put his blankets in and on. Of course you probably CANNOT tell because he tore it down and all that is left is the frame and of course the blankets.

Matthew Closet After
Here is the after, I actually was able to put everything in the before shot on one shelf! I used the others to empty two drawers of Sophie’s dresser, boxes from the other side of the closet, and a ton of stuff from my room!

Ok, so since we are on the subject of the corner o’ baby stuff in my room I will show you the before and afters of it:

Master Corner before
This is all the crap I had in there before. Swing, bed, clothes, fabric, diaper bag, baby book, etc.

Master Corner After
And this is all that is left, but only because they are two boxes of cloth diapers (clean of course) that I need to wash before I can put them away, and then also my Hypnobabies home learning package box that I need to find another home for, and some bags of baby magazines I need to go through and my sarong I need to wash for birthing day.

Matthew Closet Left After
Here is the after of where those big boxes ended up, this side used to be crammed full with more clothes, blankets, and the crib (which now nicely fits in the closet behind the new shelf and a couple rails in this side).

Ok, so I could not start on the closet and leave his room looking like the disaster it was, so I started picking up and organizing his toys, here is what I did with his “cubby” shelf:

Matthew Cubby Before
The before of course, yikes!

Matthew Cubby After
And the after, much better!

Moving onto his shelf:

Matthew Shelf Before
Need I even tell you this is the before?

Matthew Shelf After
And the after.

Matthew Bed Before
His bed, before.

Matthew Bed After
And after.

Matthew Dresser Before
This is the changing table & Sophia’s dresser, before.

Matthew Room After
And the changing table afterwards.

And some misc after pics, because a clean room is so much more fun to take pics of:

Matthew Dresser After
His dresser & his diaper stash.

Matthew Shoes After
And his shoes on the back of his door.

Another project I have been putting off is my freaking NASTY toilet seat. I took a belly pic with my toilet seat up and could not use them because the underside of my seat had been scrubbed so much the paint was coming off, so it was stained REALLY bad from anytime anyone was sick (think splatter, EWWWWWW!) Here is a tiny before, since it is so so bad.

Nasty Toilet
Gross, gross, gross, GROSS! Can you believe a new seat was only $10? Had I known this, I would have replaced it when we moved in! I seriously think the old owners cleaned the seats with turpentine, the other bathroom needs a new seat as well (of course I notice this AFTER we get home with the first seat).

Bathroom Toilet Before
Another before. And no, we did not paint, it was the only room in the house that was not white when we moved in.

Bathroom Toilet After
And here is the toilet after, amazing how much $10 can make over a bathroom!

Much like the new shelf in Matthew’s room inspired me to clean the room, the toilet seat accomplished the same thing.

Bathroom Candles Before
This is the right side of my bathroom vanity before.

Bathroom Candles After
And after.

Bathroom Cabinet Before
Center part of my vanity before.

Bathroom Cupboard After
…after.

Bathroom Sink Before
Sink before.

Bathroom Sink After
The sink after, not TOO much of a change there.

I also vacuumed my entire upstairs, even my bathroom because the jackass designer of this house thinks bathrooms should be carpeted, gag. I also cleaned the upper shelves in my walk in closet where I keep the curtains for my family room I need to put back up, and also the shelf where I am keeping all my pre-pregnancy jeans. All in all, this ‘makeover’ cost a total of $70, $50 for the shelf, $10 for the toilet seat and the final $10 was for zip-ties and tax. The zip ties are for redneck baby-proofing, to make sure she crib and shelf is secured to the wall. I also had a ton of help from Austin and Christopher (and a little from Bobby, who claimed he wanted no part of my “wicked shenanigans”) and between 4-6 hours of time. We got one box together of items to donate to Goodwill when I hit the drive through on Thursday after my prenatal appointment, and one large garbage bag of garbage. I also got about three arm fulls of toys to add to his cubby from his toy box in the family room, which was getting too full to clothes. So two rooms down, nine rooms to go!!



Tackle It Tuesday Meme: Week 5


Tackle It Tuesday Meme

No pictures yet, maybe I will put one up later of the new bookshelf, even if I don’t have any before pictures. My tackles today are not visual.

To Do:

  • Pick up Prescription
  • Plan and Buy Groceries for Dinner Tonight and Tomorrow (and Paper Towels)

Done:

  • Pay off Visa
  • Laundry
  • Spot Clean Carpet
  • Call in Prescription
  • Pay Property Taxes
  • Pay State Taxes
  • File Tax Amendment
  • Pick up Valentines Day Cards for Christopher


Tackle It Tuesday Meme: Week 4


Tackle It Tuesday Meme

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Here is a before and after picture showing both food cupboards at once.

Here is my right cupboard where I keep baking stuff, snacks, drinks, and breakfast hot cereals.


This is my left cupboard where I keep dinner stuff, beans, rice, pasta, canned goods and spices.

I have been putting off my food cupboard for weeks; it seems everyone has tacked it but me recently. :) Anyways, those are the photo worthy ones, below is my To Do list which I will update throughout the day. *Denotes tasks completed and moved to Done section.

TO DO:

  • Vacuum
  • Wash Diapers*
  • Refresh Diaper Station* (Replace Wipe Solution, Replace Changing Pad Cover)*
  • Re-Hang the Baby’s Wall Hanging*
  • Find and Put Away all Pieces to the Pump*
  • Take out Trash*

DONE:

  • Refresh Diaper Station (Replace Wipe Solution, Replace Changing Pad Cover)
  • Take out Trash
  • Mix the Two Types of Puppy Food
  • Wash Diapers
  • Re-Hang the Baby’s Wall Hanging
  • Find and Put Away all Pieces to the Pump
  • Cleaned Top of Refrigerator
  • Cleaned up Archive of my Blog


Tackle It Tuesday Meme: Week 3


Tackle It Tuesday Meme

Sorry guys, this tackle is not the best…. just little random stuff that needed to be done, but no big project this week.

  • Got the garbage out and to the curb for tomorrow’s pickup.
  • Washed diapers.
  • Mixed the dog food for the week, and made a chart for weaning the puppy off of her old food onto the new food.
  • Took care of the sicklings.
  • Disinfected various stuff that the sicklings touched.
  • Made the sicklings an appointment for tomorrow.
  • Various picking up.

I am frustrated I could not get more done, but Baby A. did not nap today, and Matthew catnapped.



Tackle It Tuesday Meme: Week 2


Tackle It Tuesday Meme
Tackle it Tuesday is here again, and boy did I slack! I did have a busy day today however, I started babysitting A., a 3 month old baby girl yeasterday and she is a real sweetie (ONLY when being held). :) I also had a doctor’s appointment today to check my blood pressure. Anyways, I decided to tackle my much needed bathroom vanitity while A. napped since I knew I only had about 30 minutes. Sorry you all get to see my tampons, but hey, we are all grownups here, right? Click to enlarge (if you dare).



Tackle It Tuesday Meme: Week 1


Tackle It Tuesday Meme

Today’s room I did was my Master Bedroom & Master Bath. I did enlist some help from my husband to help with some heavy lifting. [Click Images to Enlarge]

Mom, please advert your eyes!! I can’t believe I let it get this bad!

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Busy Day


I have been away from the computer most of the day today, I decided to start participating in a new meme called “Tackle it Tuesday” where I chose an area of my room and clean and organize it and paste the before and after pictures on my blog. The reason I chose to do this was the ultimate accountability involved in showing pictures of my messy home on the web and wanting to make it look it’s very best for the after pictures.

I am mostly done with the area I chose, I am just waiting on my linens to come out of the dryer so I can finish putting the room back together and then take some “after” pictures, then I will put them on my blog so you all can see my hard work today…